Anonymous: it's not fair to like someone so fucking much when that person barely knows you exist. whyYyYyYyyY

i know, it sucks!

my suggestion to you is to just introduce yourself! it’s not like you’re proposing. become friends with said person and maybe they will see how amazing you really are! xx

Anonymous: its me again and I just wanted to tell you that I did it. a bunch of small cuts on my left wrist. idk. I don't feel any better. and that's a usual thing. idk. just wanted to tell someone.

Can you please come to me off of anonymous. I won’t tell you all the normal things you hear. I really just want to be your friend and be there for you. You mentioned how you needed to tell someone. Come tell me. I won’t judge you at all. Stay strong bby. x

Anonymous: idk anymore. i'm just feeling triggered and it won't go away and i feel like I need to do it all over or just really deep. i know you're gonna try to tell me its not worth it and you're gonna give me some alternatives. but i won't listen. i just wanted you to know before i did it. maybe i won't do it today or tomorrow or anytime next week but idk. i just needed to tell someone this. idk.

I won’t tell you it’s not worth it. I understand what you are going through and I know people who are going through it. Being triggered is a horrible feeling, but it won’t just go away. I don’t want you to self harm and I know that you are more than that, but I know that won’t fix anything. You need to believe in it yourself in order for anything to happen. I think that you should talk to someone. You need to find support, I know you can. Feel free to come to me about anything bby. I love you. ♥

Anonymous: Even when I'm happy I want to cut. I don't even know why. did you ever feel this way because I feel like I shouldn't be so addicted to the point where I even cut when I'm happy.

Sometimes the dark thoughts linger in the background because you know that it will happen. Try living in the moment and don’t think about all the bad things that could happen. Smile too, it helps. Plus you should talk to someone about your addiction, you can stop one day, you just need to work at it.

Anonymous: Is it sad that I start to feel lost when my cuts start to heal and fade away? Did you feel this way?

When my scars started to fade I would feel better, like I accomplished something in my recovery. Everyone is different. It’s not sad, but you try and talk to someone about getting better so you don’t have to feel that way. xx

Anonymous: So last night I literally tore up my right arm and I have gym tomorrow and I don't know how to cover up the cuts... its not like I can just put a huge band-aid over my arm. I don't know what to do. I don't want people to see my cuts. I mean no one even knows that I do and I'm just screwed because people are going to see. Help?!?!

Wear like your school’s jacket over your PE clothes or maybe put cover up on it. I don’t know how bad it is though. But just in case someone does see don’t be afraid to talk to them, they will most likely want to help you get better. xx

Anonymous: Ok so I had a really bad night last night and was cutting myself and didn't do any homework and then I found out that I had a spanish quiz today that I didn't study for so I was obviously gonna fail and I'm already failing the class and I have to get a good grade on it. So I decided to cheat and somehow the teacher caught me and I cant stop thinking about it. It's literally been consuming my thoughts all day and I'm really stressed and upset about it. How do I stop these awful thoughts?

Sometimes you just need to take a deep breath and sort things out. Whenever you have a bad night try and take your mind of it or thing about the effects it could have, like your test and stuff like that. As for the test, I know failing is scary, but in the long run, it’s just a class. You can always retake it because it won’t effect you that much. Just try your best, you’ll pull through for yourself okay? You can do this and you don’t need to self harm to do it. Xo

Anonymous: idk for some reason I feel like my best friend(a guy) is giving my other best friend(a girl) more attention. like we have our own support group cause we've all SHed in 1 way or another and we kinda still do it but idk. I feel like such a bitch when I mention it to him and idk. I've told him once before and he just says that he loves us both the same but idk I don't feel like I believe it.I want to but I can't. idk what to do. I've been SHing because of it and idk anymore.

Maybe they need you to try a little more or something. Like they don’t realize they are doing it. So maybe talk to them more and plan more things. Don’t let this define your life okay bby? You can do it and you don’t need self harm to get through it. stay strong. xx

Anonymous: I think I have depression, my mom keeps telling me that she wants to help me, she wants me to so see a professional, but I'm too scared to open up to a stranger, you know? I was just wondering what your advice would be on it. Thanks for your time.

Do it! I know it’s scary and it’s hard to trust a perfect stranger, but they can help you. You will be so glad you did it! I promise. Good luck. xx

Anonymous: hi i'm the anon from before? so um i asked my parents to go into counseling. and my mom refuses to believe there is a problem at all. my dad is open to ideas but my mom refuses to go to counseling, only to say that if only my dad did something about it then they wouldn't be fighting. sorry to be bothering you with this :(

No no, don’t worry about bothering me. You’re no bother. Keep trying to convince your mom, it might not happen over night. If she believes your dad is the problem and your dad thinks they need counseling then maybe she’ll give in after awhile. Sorry I’m not more. I’ve never been put in your situation. I do believe everything will work out. Never be afraid to come talk to me. x